threesome

Dreams.

They are the targets that people live for. They are the motivation behind people's mind when they do something. They are probably the main drive behind all human motives. Everyone has dreams, but at the end of it, what's going to happen? Upon reaching the end of that tunnel, will life end? And in the process, if you were to sacrifice an important possession, will you still continue with it? Sometimes, I wonder who will be standing with me at the end of my tunnel. I want to share my success with family and friends. Sometimes, I wonder if I will even reach there. Sometimes, life seems like chapters of Bleak House, boring and repetitive. Sometimes, life has too much colours, such that it taints the purity and innocence that it is supposed to come with. Sometimes, I wonder.

Understanding.

This is the aspect of human character that I admired and aspired to attain the most. Apparently, I haven't got the gist of it, I presume. I believe if everyone were to have an increase in one notch of that characteristic, people will understand each other much much better. Putting yourself in other's plight and avoiding attribution error are some ways of helping people understand each other better. At least, that's what I believed in. I firmly believed that having basic understanding of each other is fundamental for every budding friendship or relationship. And now the Nickleback song "If Everyone Cared" keeps playing in my head.

Fear.

Fear is something that inhibits us from doing something, and it is present innately without you even doing anything. We all have our respective fears. We are afraid of losing our loved ones, afraid of doing badly in exams, afraid of pissing someone off in a date. I do have these fears. But, I am not afraid of fears. I think fear is essential to keep me on my toes. Fear tells me that, if I don't appreciate and cherish my love ones, they will disappear. And I don't want that to happen. Fear reminds me that if I don't put in effort and study hard, I might end up with nothing in the future. Fear has its positive effects. And as many would have said, fear is only a 4-lettered word.
And I will agree, ethnocentrism firmly roots in our blood.

In the end, I am still reminded, that I am still a fragile being. I just hope I don't falter in this long race.

On account of the fact that Chinese New Year is arriving, I shan't end this on a bad note. On a brighter side, I finished my HW111 assignment.

I am really looking forward to 18th June.

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